[Neurons] 2013 Meta Reflections #4

[L. Michael Hall]

From: L. Michael Hall

Meta Reflections 2013  #4

January 20, 2013



 

Special  Book Offer

            During Jan. & Feb.

 

 

IT'S ALL ABOUT

FRAMES                         

         AND WINNING

THE INNER GAME

 

 

In Neuro-Semantics- we go for the frames!  And there's a very special reason
that we do this.  It goes back to what is probably the most fundamental
principle in both NLP and Neuro-Semantics.  Namely: 

The person is never the problem; the frame is always the problem.

 

Do you ever think that "the problem" is you?  Well, it is not.  No matter
what crazy thoughts you are thinking, or disruptive emotions you are
feeling, or what hurtful behaviors you have done, or what ugly words you
have uttered -those are expressions of you, not you.  Yes, they came from
you, and yet you are so much more than any of those expressions.

 

The distinction I'm getting at is the Person/ Behavior distinction that will
save you a lot of grief, confusion, and disorientation.  And it is one in
which every society and every culture fails to make.  Everywhere on this
planet, humans confuse Persons/Behaviors and identify these two very
different things as if they were the same thing and so fall into the
unsanity trap that Alfred Korzybski warned about in Science and Sanity
(1933, 1994). 

                                                            

Do you ever think about other people, that this or that person- he or she is
"the problem?"  Opps, the same error.  And an erroneous one that will
undermine your sanity and misdirect your actions as you try to "fix" that
person.  The problem is not the person- the problem is the frame.  If you
want to fix things and get on the sanity track- find the frame, identify the
frame, quality control the frame, deframe the frame, reframe the frame,
outframe the frame - in other words, you've got to win the inner game of
your frames! 

 

This is a guiding principle in Neuro-Semantics and NLP.  Wherever anyone has
a problem, the problem is not the person's history about what happened at
some time or place.  The problem is not the person's experiences with mom or
dad or a teacher or anyone else.  The problem is always some frame of
reference that the person holds in mind as a meaning about something which
they use to interpret and construct meaning.

 

Now when you know that- you then know that the other things are
pseudo-causes.  They are distractions preventing you from detecting the true
cause.  You also know that the other things are symptoms of the frame system
(the Matrix) the person lives within.  And when you know that- you know
where the leverage point of change and transformation occurs!  And now you
can work effectively, easily, efficiently, and masterfully in bringing about
positive and lasting change.

 

Today much of this is in the form of the frame game books.  That's because
after the creation of the Meta-States Model (1994), I began packaging that
model in terms of frames and began running trainings under the title, Frame
Games.  Finally I put it in book form under that title (1997) and that led
to both a series of workshops and books using frame games as the theme.  For
example, that led to the training series- 

            Games Fit and Slim People Play                     Games for
Accelerating Learning

            Games Prolific Writers Play                           Games
Business Experts Play

            Games for Relationship Selling                      Games for
Mastering Fear

            Games Great Lovers Play


                                                            

Fast forward a few more years and when I revised and shortened the original
book, Frame Games, I re-titled it Winning the Inner Game.  These works keep
selling so during 2012, each of the following books have been reprinted and
put into the larger book form that we now use at Neuro-Semantic Publications
(NSP).

 

Now for the sales pitch.  You can now buy Winning the Inner Game and one of
the following three books as the 20% savings special during January and
February.

            Winning the Inner Game

            Games Fit and Slim People Play

            Games for Mastering Fear

            Games Great Lovers Play

 

To take advantage of this special offer - here's what to do: 

            Go to  <http://www.neurosemantics.com/> www.neurosemantics.com 

            Click: Pay a Statement.

                        Identify the books you want.

                        Type out your mailing address.

                        For every 3 books, one package, the packages cost $6
if inside the USA and $17 if outside the USA.

            These books are normally $25, during January and Feb. they are
$20, plus shipping.

            And if you have any problems, email me personally at
<mailto:meta at acsol.net.> meta at acsol.net. 

 

 

 

            

 

            

 

 

 

 

L. Michael Hall, Ph.D.

                Neuro-Semantics Executive Director 

                Neuro-Semantics International

P.O. Box 8

Clifton, CO. 81520 USA                             

                1 970-523-7877 

                Dr. Hall's email:
<mailto:meta at acsol.net\hich\af31506\dbch\af31505\loch\f31506> meta at acsol.net


     

    

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