[Neurons] Neurons Digest, Vol 37, Issue 4

[conrad rozario]

From: Conrad Rozario
E mail: conradrozario at yahoo.com 

Hi Michael,

Thank you for that article, it was refreshingly awakening! Thanks too for the many other ones that you so faithfully send out, week in, week out!

With sincere appreciation,

Conrad Rozario
Alchemy Resources
www.alchemy-resources.com    




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Date: Sat, 15 May 2010 10:45:32 -0600
From: "L. Michael Hall" <meta at acsol.net>
Subject: [Neurons] 2010 Meta Reflections #22
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From: L. Michael Hall

Meta-Coach Reflections 2010 - #22

May 17, 2010

Vitality #3 



**

NSTT starts June 19

in GJ Colorado and in just                            

6 weeks.  We have 29 and if 

you want in- contact Dr. Hall

as soon as possible!



THE VITALITY

OF DISCOVERING AND BECOMING

YOURSELF





How real are you?  Are you your real self?  How much do you live your life
to express your authentic self with your highest possibilities and
actualizing your best potentials?  That's what the self-actualizing life is
all about- creating and living the best version of you so that you can
contribute and make a difference.  You were made for that.  And your
potentials clamor within for that.  And if you try to shut all of that down,
you only doom yourself to being unhappy for the rest of your life.



What this means is that your vitality is related to, and dependent upon, you
discovering and being your best self- your real self.  The wisdom within
this actually goes far, far beyond Maslow to the ancient Greeks who made
this one of the points of wisdom: "Know thyself."  

And to others who said, "To thy own self be true."  "Love your neighbor as
you love yourself."



In Self-Actualization Psychology Maslow forged the way beyond the "empty
slate" idea to the realization that each of us are born with unique features
and possibilities- potentials of our disposition and uniqueness.  And just
as we are not born human (we become human, we learn how to become human), so
we are not born fully ourselves- we become.  We don't arrive on the scene
with "instincts."  We don't come out of the womb and can run and jump.  We
develop.  Hence, Developmental Psychology arose in the twentieth century to
map out how we develop physically, socially, sexually, mentally,
emotionally, etc.  And all of that resulted in Lifespan studies of the
developmental stages.



All this relates directly to your sense of vitality in life.  If you want to
dampen your energies, reduce the quality of your vitality- try to be someone
else!  Try to conform to a mold that's established at school, in the media,
by your culture, by Hollywood, or by any group.  If you succeed, you will
fail at being you.  You will fail at being authentic and knowing yourself
and with that, you won't know your best gifts and contributions.  So you'll
feel like a fraud, you'll evaluate yourself as up or down depending on local
circumstances, you'll suffer identity crisis, you won't know what you like,
your values, your unique potentials.  And in the long run that will
undermine your joy of life and basic vitality.



Another way to dampen your energies, reduce your vitality, and diminish
yourself as a person- try to be what you are not.  Try to be perfect!  Ha,
that's a great way to ruin a perfectly good fallible human being!  At first
you'll have lots of energy and effort but then you'll over-prepare and begin
to procrastinate and hyper-worry about flaws and fill your mind-body with
anxiety and ... yes will make life a party!



Or try to be totally positive and never negative!  Yes, at first it will
seem like a great strategy- you, the positive thinker.  But then whenever
you have an experience that doesn't fit that mental box of "positive" you
have to distort your experience and so begins the pretend-life.  And the
more you refuse to welcome (a very un-positive thing) the so-called
"negative" emotions and experiences, you begin to defend yourself against
reality.  And in the long-run that distortion will undermine your ability to
accept reality for what it is. 



When your life energies seem down, depressed, empty, or diminished, you may
be wasting your energies.  You could be wasting them fighting some phantom
in your mind like the need to be perfect or positive or never fallible,
vulnerable, or mortal.  The paradox is that your vitality for life comes
more alive with more energy when you fully embrace your true nature as a
weak, fallible, and mortal person!  Look at any young child- weak, fallible,
vulnerable and fully alive to the mystery, excitement, and fascination of
life!



Vitality emerges from your needs, not in spite of them.  So what do you
need?  What are the requirements of life that activates your full
mind-body-emotions?  People become experientially empty and out-of-touch
with themselves when they don't know their true needs and try to live in
some synthetic life that Wall Street or Hollywood or some Cultural Bureau of
Standards impose on their lives.  Then they live by external values, by the
clock, by brand names, by what others are telling them they should think,
feel, and experience.



Because we come without "instinct," and because we have to learn how to be
human- we are so open to information outside of ourselves.  This is our
glory and our agony.  Maslow said that for the human species is it hard to
be the species we are (1971: 179).  That's why we have to discover
ourselves, to "know ourselves."



If your tired of being diminished, devitalized, and living like a zombie,
then I'd recommend Unleashing Vitality so you can discover who you are in
your lower-level needs and drives and find out how to gratify them
adequately and accurately for yourself.  Achieving that you can then move on
to discovering who you are given your higher-level needs- your being needs
and, again, how to gratify them so that it brings out your best and fulfills
your nature.











L.  Michael Hall, Ph.D.

(ISNS) International Society of Neuro-Semantics

The International Meta-Coach System

P.O. Box 8

Clifton, CO.  81520 USA

1 970-523-7877

      <http://www.neurosemantics.com/> www.neurosemantics.com 

      <http://www.neuro-semantics-trainings.com/>
www.neuro-semantics-trainings.com 

      <http://www.self-actualizing.org/> www.self-actualizing.org

      <http://www.meta-coaching.org/> www.meta-coaching.org

      www.meta-coachfoundation.org 

      <http://www.ns-video.com/> www.ns-video.com 



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Date: Thu, 20 May 2010 12:01:43 -0600
From: "L. Michael Hall" <meta at acsol.net>
Subject: [Neurons] Doubling the Ranks
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From: L. Michael Hall

Re: NSTT in 2010





DOUBLING THE RANKS





It is not often that we double the ranks but this June we will double the
number of licensed Neuro-Semantic Trainers.  With 45 in the Hong Kong
Training and 30 in the Colorado training, we will be graduating and
licensing 75 brand new Neuro-Semantic Trainers within the same month.  We
have never done that before so this is a first.



Now more than 200 people have been through NSTT training over the years, yet
many took that training primarily for the public speaking and leadership
skills not to become a Trainer.  So in terms of those who are active as NLP
and Neuro-Semantic trainers, those who have been keeping up their license as
Neuro-Semantic Trainers, with these two classes we are doubling the ranks.
We have never done anything like this before.  (The list of licensed
Neuro-Semantic Trainers is on  <http://www.neurosemantics.com.)/>
www.neurosemantics.com.) 



And yet we need more, a whole lot more!  That fact is, we have just barely
started to scratch the surface.  With billions of people on the planet
needing the communication and self-actualization skills that we facilitate-
we need thousands of men and women of vision and skill- vision to see the
possibilities of facilitating self-actualization in individuals and
organizations and skill to make that happen.  And that's a very special
combination.



NSTT will finish in Hong Kong June 10 and NSTT Colorado will begin June 19.
We have people coming from all over the planet - from the USA, Mexico,
Canada, Europe, Africa, and Australia.  With only 4 weeks to go - if you are
interested, let me know and I will send the Brochure as well as an
Application and Registration form.



L.  Michael Hall, Ph.D.

(ISNS) International Society of Neuro-Semantics

The International Meta-Coach System

P.O. Box 8

Clifton, CO.  81520 USA

1 970-523-7877

      <http://www.neurosemantics.com/> www.neurosemantics.com 

      <http://www.neuro-semantics-trainings.com/>
www.neuro-semantics-trainings.com 

      <http://www.self-actualizing.org/> www.self-actualizing.org

      <http://www.meta-coaching.org/> www.meta-coaching.org

      www.meta-coachfoundation.org 

      <http://www.ns-video.com/> www.ns-video.com 



Contact Dr. Hall at  meta at acsol.net  











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